What makes some things work and some not? What makes the difference between feeling good and feeling bad for a certain thing or action or person?
The answer is way simpler than you think.
What makes the difference between you being crappy about your job or being happy to wake up in the morning to go to work? It’s not the pay, it’s not the weather, it’s not even your mood. It’s deeper than that.
What makes the difference between going out and having fun, or going out and wishing you never did set foot out the door?
It is love! Do you love what you are working? No? Then of course you hate that job and makes you feel crappy.
Do you love your friends gang? There’s that one annoying person who always talks too much or gossips around your back? Then of course you hate meeting them!
Do things you love, meet people you like, find places that inspire you, listen to music that gives you a good vibe, watch movies that leave you wanting to do more and put a smile on your face. This helps being happy all the time. And it is your choice…wether you do it or not. You choose your friends, you choose your job, you choose what you do. Do it wisely! 😉
Oh, but there is a catch, yes: to be able to do this, you have to love yourself first of all. Get to know yourself, the good and the bad. Learn who you are, not who others want you to be. Be honest to yourself about it, and learn to be on the outside who you are on the inside! And then…miracles will happen.